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Cheating no sin

 


The mood to cheat isn’t something that really exists. Why does married one cheat? Because I was in the mood? No, it doesn’t work like that. Intentional cheating is rare, and often unfulfilling, creating a hollow and shallow experience. It leaves the one who is cheating with an empty feeling.

So, why do married people cheat then? These are people who often miss something in their life. It could be the excitement of youth, the pre-marital freedom, the need to be wanted, the need to feel alive.

In any of those cases, while cheating is not the warranted solution, it is often the relief one seeks to break out of a monotonous life brought on by dissatisfaction of what is present – to them, cheating provides the temporary escape into wonderland, away from the dissatisfaction. Should then be cheating viewed as a cardinal sin? Why does the one who is being cheated upon feel betrayed, even when they are probably not the actual causes?  

Why are people mutually exclusive if these bondages are stifling and unfulfilling? Why does society harp about the one true love, when in fact the heart is capable of taking any amount of true love in any form and from any number of people in any shape and form?

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